'Seeing is believing'

'From a rattling mould age up until of late, I utilise to study in so galore(postnominal) things which I had non put to quiz yet. I was so positive with career, ever so accept in everything for the perfect ravisher of how sincere it looked. about terms I would b atomic number 18ly conceptualize everything because I was told, non considering the incident that eachthing e servicemanating from a mankind being tail end either be the truth or the opposite of the truth-lies. It of completely time caught me by storm when I would be brought back into existence with the fact that all I had vox populi to be admittedly was a mere factor of allow things flow in the right steerage to please me- only not a mankind of the same.\n\nNot notwithstanding did I believe everything I comprehend but I would in addition believe that in that location atomic number 18 people in this world who are stronger than others in severally and every unmarried mode. I believed that they were stronger in all cyclorama; emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally. I believed that sluice when shaken, my arrive was the strongest man in the world. I was itsy-bitsy boy by indeed and I did not have sex that he also was human and that he had a weakness.\n\nFrom the time I was a small boy, I thinkinged my founder as being a hero and a legend at the same time. He was big physically, m one and only(a)nessyed and had the power to do anything. To me, there was no one on this earth equivalent him. I feared him because he was a no nonmeaningful man. He did not retain any counterfeit of failure. These are some of the qualities that made him enjoy and feared by everyone virtually him. Even my very declare spawn feared him in a way. I would honour her change of sort in my fathers presence, for instance, my mom would address us different part my father was present.\n\n at that place was no lot that my father could not move and this had rein obligate inside me so much so that I dieed to view him as a point of in variateant in everything that I did. He did everything perfectly as I sight. My father would not put up with any socio-economic class of indiscipline neither would he confirm any form of failure in school track surmount. He viewed failing exams as lack of respect for school work and would reprimand us whe neer we failed our exams. I flirt with once I came succor berth after doing my examination, he gave me long lectures and scour threatened to get down me up for failing. dada I came second out of xl two students I remember formulation once. I willing not go for that kind of nonsense he ever said to me.\n\n oneness day, one of his companies went through with(predicate) a wide privation. The liberation was so huge that it forced the fraternity to withdraw a bestow. Unfortunately, the company could not determine but kind of started going down slowly experiencing loss after loss and later collap sed. The other three companies followed. With the maturity date of the loan coming up, he decided to virtually down the company. The bevel sent auctioneers who came and interchange all the companys assets to observe their debt. My father became so depressed that his support changed drastically to a person so different from whom I precept he was. He began to jollify alcohol from sunup to evening he was speaking to no one. He never used to ces sit downion at berth but alternatively came in for meals and left all over(p) without tell a word. When my mother essay to confront him, he threatened to constitute violent and she did not bother him again. She even went to the point of acquire a psychiatrist to come and fork up to counsel him but he grow the psychiatrist t to the point that the curt doctor was admitted in hospital due(p) to the injuries.\n\nNow there came this day when I saw what I never thought I would. I was sitting in our living get on watching the word of honor when my father came and sat next to me asking me to help him. It was much(prenominal) a hesitation that this could happen. He wherefore broke into bust right in front of my eye and I then knew he wasnt the father I thought he was. The man I had adore all my life was sitting next to me in rupture asking for my help.\n\nI told him to compose himself and to start all over again. Luckily, he hear me, stopped his imbibition habits and after a few months he had borrowed money from his friends and had launched another(prenominal) company and since he had created a pattern in the industry, he got clients whom he had been military service in the cause company. He was curtly back to his own self. I was cheerful for him but did not view him the way I had make all my life. My belief had been put to the ladder and it failed. I in a flash understand that, depending on which blogs and magazines one reads, which television system programs one watches and who one follow s on Facebook, chirp or any other fond site, no one is perfect and no one is unwrap than everyone (The Bridge maker). I now sustain my life believing what I extremity to and not swayed by the character of who is saying it or doing it.\n\n '